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Quotes that I post on this website will be archived here, as well as some quotes that I just like.
Susan Ohanian also maintains a page of notable quotes that I frequently borrow from.

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"Every exit is an entrance somewhere else." ~Tom Stoppard

“The object of teaching a child is to enable them to get along without a teacher.” ~ Elbert Hubbard

"The greatest sin of NCLB is to make what should be a lifelong joy into a tedious, bureaucratic exercise - making words far harder to learn and infinitely harder to love. ... Kids need more words in their lives - and fewer tests." ~ Sam Smith, The Road to Literacy is Paved with Words, Not Tests

"Now instead of Captain Marvel, we have No Child Left Behind, a program that gets reading off to a bad start by even lying in its title." ~ Sam Smith, The Road to Literacy is Paved with Words, Not Tests

"But they are not meant to ask questions; they are only meant to answer them." - perhaps the best summation of NCLB I've heard. ~ Sam Smith, The Road to Literacy is Paved with Words, Not Tests

"Test The Kids" on YouTube.

Hear song and see video against NCLB! Here's my favorite quote:

"The last thing I'm going to do is subject some third-grader to tears because someone's standing over them saying, 'You must complete [this standardized test], you must comeplete [it].' That's not happening. Let them fire me for it." ~ Jack Dale, Superintendent of Fairfax County Public Schools in VA

The federal NCLB law is "taking us staight to hell." ... "Just teaching the three 'Rs' isn't enough these days ... Schools have to switch focus now to teaching ... the three 'Ts', thinking, technology and teamwork." ~ Jamie Vollmer, Public Speaker & Education Advocate

"The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear." ~ Herbert Agar, Author

"The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter." ~ Samuel Clemens/Mark Twain, Writer

Williams Syndrome: The Gregarious Brain, David Dobbs, NY Times, 7/8/07

The mother of twin Williams boys in their late teens opened her door to find on her stoop a leather-clad biker, motorcycle parked at the curb, asking for her sons. The boys had made the biker’s acquaintance via C.B. radio and invited him to come by, but they forgot to tell Mom. The biker visited for a spell. Fascinated with how the twins talked about their condition, the biker asked them to speak at his motorcycle club’s next meeting. They did. They told the group of the genetic accident underlying Williams, the heart and vascular problems that eventually kill many who have it, their intense enjoyment of talk, music and story, their frustration in trying to make friends, the slights and cruelties they suffered growing up, their difficulty understanding the world. When they finished, most of the bikers were in tears.

"I tried to be good, then I got bored." ~ on my nephew's T-shirt

"Beware of the man who works hard to learn something, learns it, and finds himself no wiser than before." ~ Kurt Vonnegut, novelist and satirist

"The distance between insanity and genius is measured only by success." ~ Bruce Feirstein, Screenwriter and Humorist

Jessica Shyu is tired of testing kids. She wants to teach, and not to the test. She is also "tired of watching my students in special education feel like losers for failing a seventh grade test, when in fact they have already made two years of growth to reach the third grade reading level this year. I am tired of watching all that confidence we built up over the past eight months be blown away by a single state-mandated test." Read more: Test, test, test, test, test, test

"The dream begins with a teacher who believes in you, who tugs and pushes and leads you to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a sharp stick called 'truth.'" ~Dan Rather

Idealism increases in direct proportion to one's distance from the problem. ~ JOHN GALSWORTHY (1867-1933), Novelist and Dramatist

" ... real teaching isn't just about teaching the brain up here ... but it's about inspiring your students to have heart ... compassion, guts, understanding, and hope!" ~ Victor Villasenor, Burro Genius

"School is not everything. You are not your test scores." ~ Parent with LD

After spending some time playing on the farm in the chilly air and sunshine, my great-niece and I were enjoying some hot drinks in the kitchen. When I asked her how she liked first grade, she replied, "I just do what I have to do." ~ TJ

"[E]ducation is not going to be the answer to our economic crisis. It is clearly an answer to every single individual -- they should get every piece of education, we should pay for it, give our kids the skills, the training, the college education. But here's the problem: only 1 percent more of all jobs by 2012 will require a college education. So if everybody went to college, and only 1 percent more require a college education, that's going to be a problem. Only eight of the 30 fastest-growing jobs in America require a college education. On top of all of that, college-educated kids in the last five years have lost the same amount of money in wages as blue-collar people. So if college education was the answer to America's problems -- yes, we need it, but we should not be fooled by people that say, 'Well, if everybody just gets an education, then America will redistribute its wealth.' It will not do that. -- Changing How America Works " ~Andy Stern, president, Service Employees International Union (SEIU)

"The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated." ~William James, Psychologist, Professor

"It's better to build children than repair men." ~ Grace Mutzabaugh, co-founder National Institute of Learning Disabilities

"Fighting a bully is just silly. You're not going to change his mind, and you're going to get a bloody nose." ~ paraphrase from Michael J. Fox speaking about Rush Limbaugh

"A moral compass can only point you in the right direction, it can't take you there. You have to take yourself there." ~ Grissom in CSI

"Intelligence plus character -- that is the goal of true education." ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

"Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have the obligation to be one." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

“If a child can't learn the way we teach, maybe we should teach the way they learn.” ~ Ignacio Estrada

“Teachers are expected to reach unattainable goals with inadequate tools. The miracle is that at times they accomplish this impossible task.” ~ Dr. Haim Ginott

"Children are like wet cement. Whatever falls on them makes an impression.” ~ Dr. Haim Ginott

“I've come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element in the classroom. It's my daily mood that makes the weather. As a teacher, I possess a tremendous power to make a child's life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration. I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis will be escalated or de-escalated and a child humanized or de-humanized.” ~ Dr. Haim Ginott

“The best way to change a life of frustration into a life of mastery is by developing talents and strengths not just shoring up weaknesses.” ~ Edward M. Hallowell, M.D. and John J. Ratey, M.D.

"You do not lead by hitting people over the head -- that's assault, not leadership." ~ Dwight D. Eishenhower, 34th U.S. President

"We boil at different degrees." ~ Ralph Waldo Ererson, "Eloquence," Society and Solitude

"Consistency requires you to be as ignorant today as you were a year ago." ~ Bernard Berenson, Notebook, 1892

"An expert is a man who has made all of the mistakes which can be made, in a very narrow field." ~ Niels Bohr

"You need to be aware that there is a single answer that works for every possible question. The answer to every question in nature is this: It depends." ~ Matt Cook, "The Right Tool for the Job," In the small of my backyard

"You send your child to the schoolmaster, but 'tis the schoolboys who educate him." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

"The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows." ~ Sydney J. Harris

"Why should society feel responsible only for the education of children, and not for the education of all adults of every age?" ~ Erich Fromm

"He who opens a school door, closes a prison." ~ Victor Hugo

"You can get all A's and still flunk life." ~ Walker Percy

"Much education today is monumentally ineffective. All too often we are giving young people cut flowers when we should be teaching them to grow their own plants." ~ John W. Gardner

"We must learn our limits. We are all something, but none of us are everything." ~ Blaise Pascal, French mathematician, physicist and philosopher

"Data worship results in a myopic view of what the world could and should be. Children, we might remind corporate America, are more than math and science scores. While math and science play important roles in our lives, there are other scores we might help children increase: their creativity score, their empathy score, their resiliency score, their curiosity score, their integrity score, their thoughtfulness score, their take-initiative score, their innovation score, their critical thinking score, their passion score, their problem-solving score, their refusal to follow leaders who lie to them score, their democratic engagement score...and so forth." ~ Philip Kovacs, Common Dreams, 6/28/06

"Thousands of geniuses live and die undiscovered -- either by themselves or by others." ~ Mark Twain, American writer

"Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." ~ William James, Psychologist, Philosopher

"The chains of habit are generally too small to be felt until they are too strong to be broken." ~ Samuel Johnson

"As long as the world is turning and spinning, we're gonna be dizzy and we're gonna make mistakes." ~ Mel Brooks, Comedian

"The power of imagination makes us infinite." ~ John Muir

"Responsibility educates." ~ Wendell Phillips

"Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play it is free will." ~ Jawaharlal Nehru, first prime minister of India

A little girl had just finished her first week of school. "I'm just wasting my time," she said to her mother. "I can't read, I can't write, and they won't let me talk!" ~ e-mail communication

"Ten middle-class guys are sitting in a bar. Then the richest guy leaves, and Bill Gates walks in. Because the richest guy in the bar is now much richer than before, the average income in the bar soars. But the income of the nine men who aren't Bill Gates hasn't increased, and no amount of repeating 'But average income is up!' will convince them that they're better off." ~ Paul Krugman, New York Times, 3/24/06

"Nobody likes to bring this up much, but the problems of city schools are rooted in poverty: High concentrations of poor children in schools is a formula for failure, and that's been studied and proved. Poor families have fewer choices, so they're stuck." ~ Dan Rodricks, Baltimore Sun, 13 Apri 2006

"My son already hates school, and he's just halfway through kindergarten. . . . Now kindergarten is a 30-hour-a-week job. There's nightly homework; finger painting is a rare treat; and as for naps, there just isn't time." ~ L.J. Williamson, LA Times, 2/27/06

"The US Bureau of Labor Statistics projects that of the thirty occupations that will grow the most over the next decade, only eight will require a college degree. "~ Jeff Faux, The Global Class War, p. 184

"Required by the district to spend two to three hours a day on Open Court instruction, teachers felt unable to include the literacy curriculum we had previously developed — curriculum that more fully addressed the range of levels and the varied strengths and weaknesses of our students. These students — full of energy and, by and large, eager to learn — became victims of a system that refused to teach them in the way they learn best: actively, holistically, and cooperatively. . . . Poor kids received an education that prepared them for McDonald's, McMilitary, and Mc-Prison. " ~ Elizabeth Jaeger, "Silencing Teachers," Rethinking Schools 4/06

"Studies in Colorado, Florida, Michigan, Washington, Denver and Boston — along with others in England, Scotland, Ireland and Wales — all show that poverty is a primary determinant of student achievement. High-stakes test scores are very highly correlated with family income." ~ Donald C. Orlich, Pacific Northwest Inlander, 3/15/06

"Thousands of studies have linked poverty to academic achievement. The relationship is every bit as strong as the connection between cigarettes and cancer." ~ David Berliner, Arizona State University

"The only way that teachers and parents can change the status quo within the public school system is through outright rebellion. Refuse to administer tests. Refuse to teach to the test. Refuse to allow children to take tests. In California, Education Code 60615 allows parents to waive testing of their child just by requesting it in a letter to the principal of the school. More parents should do that." ~ Diane Flynn Keith, interview with Jo Scott Coe, 3/31/06

"Today, NCLB is almost as unpopular as the administration and Congress that created it. With the law coming up for reauthorization in 2007, debate is heating up about whether we need Band-Aids to 'fix' NLCB or a bulldozer to bury it." ~ Stan Karp, Rethinking Schools, Spring 2006

"I think what's going on for our kids, and particularly the kids who have parents who are least powerful, is the worst education I've seen in 40 years. I don't have the same picture of what this increased attention has done. I've never seen so many frightened teachers. I've never seen so many frightened principals. I cannot imagine how you think that is going to help our race to the top, that the children in our most low-income schools are surrounded by adults whose overriding concern is these terrible tests." ~ Deborah Meier, Education Sector, 3/10/06

"Any time teaching is done just to help kids pass an exam, it's wrong. The purpose of teaching is to provide an education, not to help kids pass a test." ~ Andy Rooney, 60 Minutes Commentary

"What are we but our stories?" ~ Jennifer in Sam's Letters to Jennifer by James Patterson

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit." ~ Aristotle

Read my reflection on Teacher Man by Frank McCourt. Here are some quotes from the book ...

  • "Here they come. And I'm not ready. How could I be? I'm a new teacher and learning on the job."
  • "On the first day of my teaching career, I was almost fired for eating the sandwich of a high school boy. On the second day I was almost fired for mentioning the possibility of friendship with a sheep. Otherwise, there was nothing remarkable about my thirty years in the high school classrooms of NYC. I often doubted if I should be there at all. At the end I wondered how I lasted that long."
  • "... What are schools for anyway? I ask you, is it the task of the teacher to supply canon fodder for the military-industrial complex? Are we shaping packages for the corporate assembly line?"
  • " ... in all my years at Stuyvesant only one parent, a mother, asked if her son was enjoying school. I said yes. He seemed to be enjoying himself. She smiled, stood up, said, Thank you, and left. One parent in all those years."
  • "Find what you love and do it."

"The Game of Chess is not merely an idle amusement; several very valuable qualities of the mind, useful in the course of human life, are to be acquired and strengthened by it, so as to become habits ready on all occasions; for life is a kind of Chess, in which we have often points to gain, and competitors or adversaries to contend with, and in which there is a vast variety of good and ill events, that are, in some degree, the effect of prudence, or the want of it. By playing at Chess then, we may learn: 1st, Foresight, which looks a little into futurity, and considers the consequences that may attend an action ... 2nd, Circumspection, which surveys the whole Chess-board, or scene of action: - the relation of the several Pieces, and their situations; ... 3rd, Caution, not to make our moves too hastily." ~ Benjamin Franklin

"Experience keeps a dear school, yet fools will learn in no other." ~ Benjamin Franklin

"Teaching should be such that what is offered is perceived as a valuable gift and not as a hard duty." ~ Albert Einstein

"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; second, by imitation, which is the easiest; and third, by experience, which is the bitterest." ~ Confucius

"All of us do not have equal talent, but all of us should have an equal opportunity to develop our talent." ~ John F. Kennedy

"Anger is only fear turned inward." ~ Angela in Bones

"Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for." ~ Joseph Addison, writer

"Playing chess is like taking your mind to the gym." ~ from new film, Knights of the South Bronx

"If you can win a game of chess, no one can ever call you stupid." ~ from new film, Knights of the South Bronx

"The first week at August's was a consolation, a pure relief. The world will give you that once in a while, a brief time-out; the boxing bell rings and you go to your corner, where somebody dabs mercy on your beat-up life." ~ Sue Monk Kidd in The Secret Life of Bees

"Bee yard etiquette: ... the world is really one big bee yard, and the same rules work fine in both places: Don't be afraid, as no life-loving bee wants to sting you. Still, don't be an idiot; wear long sleeves and long pants. Don't swat. Don't even think about swatting. If you feel angry, whistle. Anger agitates, while whistling melts a bee's temper. Act like you know what you're doing, even if you don't. Above all, send the bees love. Every little thing wants to be loved." ~ Sue Monk Kidd in The Secret Life of Bees

See a whole page of quotes from The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd.

"Age is foolish and forgetful when it underestimates youth..." ~Professor Dumbledore in Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince

"The voice of intellect is a soft one, but it does not rest until it has gained a hearing." ~ Sigmund Freud, founder of psychoanalysis

"Don't make decisions because they are the easiest, the cheapest, or the most popular. Make your decision because it's right." ~ Theodore Hesburgh, former president of the University of Notre Dame

" ... some of the most important things -- patience, kindness, loyalty, curiosity, dependability, steadfastness, grit, wonder -- cannot be measured on an exam." ~Beverly Beckham

"The children we teach will not care how much we know until they know how much we care." ~ Thomas Sergiovanni

"All progress requires change. But not all change is progress." ~ John Wooden, Basketball Coach

"And you overlook Dumbledore's greatest weakness: He has to believe the best of people." ~ Snape in Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince Personal Note: We should all have such a weakness!

"I don't mean to be rude--" he began, in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"--yet, sadly rudeness occurs alarmingly often," Dumbledore finished the sentence gravely. "Best to say nothing at all, my dear man..." ~Professor Dumbledore in Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince

"Maps can tell you where you are, and more importantly, where you haven't been." ~Pacific Trail Advertisement

"Each kid unrolls an original mural of mind traits. The challenge is to understand his or her special wiring and its implications for parenting, counseling, and education." ~ Dr. Mel Levine

"... parents and teachers have to be on a constant diligent quest for buried treasure within children." ~ Dr. Mel Levine

"... sometimes you fix a weakness by pursuing strengths." ~ Dr. Mel Levine

"There are only two things I have ever done well: paint and fidget." ~ Claude Monet

"Imagination is more important than knowledge." ~ Albert Einstein

"... Indifference and neglect often do more damage than outright dislike." ~ Professor Dumbledore

"... it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" ~ Professor Dumbledore

"It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities." ~ Professor Dumbledore

"The ugly duckling found out that it was okay to be different. That is what every child in America deserves." ~ Susan Ohanian

"You can go your whole life and not need math or physics for a minute, but the ability to tell a joke is always handy." ~ Garrison Keillor

"Weighing the pig more often will not make it grow faster." ~ Stephen Krashen

"We are only healthy to the extent that our ideas are humane." ~ Kurt Vonnegut

"Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts." ~ Albert Einstein

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss

"All children have special needs." ~ Social Worker Maxine Gray in the TV show, Judging Amy, CBS

"The choices we make dictate the lives we lead. To thine ownself be true." ~ Danny DeVito quoting Shakespeare in the film, Renaissance Man

"Problems are only opportunities in work clothes." ~ Henry J. Kaiser, American Industrialist, Shipbuilder

"Helping parents, teachers, and students appreciate learning differences is the first step. Helping them celebrate the differences is the goal." ~ Dr. Mel Levine, All Kinds of Minds

"Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It's the only thing."~ Albert Schweitzer

"New opinions are always suspected, and usually opposed, without any other reason but because they are not already common." ~ John Locke, Philosopher

"He who has no opinion of his own, but depends upon the opinion and taste of others, is a slave." ~ Friedrich Klopstock

"What were you in high school? A jock? A brain? A geek?"
"I was a ghost." ~from an episode of CSI

"Morality cannot be legislated but behavior can be regulated. Judicial decrees may not change the heart, but they can restrain the heartless." ~ Martin Luther King

"See what happens when we don't allow people to do what they do best? We drive them crazy." ~ Detective Robert Goren in an episode of Law & Order: Criminal Intent

"Find something you like, / Like riding a bike, / or bowling a strike, /
And have fun with your brain every day. / Brains do best when they play."
~ from A Walk in the Rain with a Brain, Dr. Edward M. Hallowell, illustrated by Bill Mayer

"What is wrong with this country? We are so quick to celebrate young people who succeed: the entertainers, the athletes, and we abandon those who need us the most." ~ paraphrase from Judging Amy TV show, season finale, 5/05